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Obtain Successes, Not Goals!
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I was wanted to share some challenging “goals” I set out for myself on a few of the social media sites such as Twitter and Facebook. What I immediate realize was that I was sending out an excuse that I might make this “goal” but if I don’t… well it was just a goal and I can always change it. Right?
Well, this was not what I wanted to receive back, another goal better yet an excuse.
What I did was change my mindset. I wanted to receive “Success”…
My mindset was immediately changed by accepting the fact that I WILL tell everyone what my successes are…. I did not ask for permission, I did not seek approval or validation, I just did it. In my mind that have already happened all I will need to do is hurry up and get there! You see, there are times when you must TELL EVERYONE what will happen before it does and you must believe in this.
Your mindset must not deviate from your success path.
I shared with all my social media buddies that I WILL achieve! My 40 Day Successes Path via posting to my Personal Blog, Twitter, Facebook, and MySpace accounts to include a few others. Today I have obtained successes….
My “40 Day Successes” (Not Goals!) I WILL have
100+ daily blog visits http://YourSuccessEvite.com
-AND- I WILL Reach out to 20k Tweeple!
Now, just vision the substitution of the word “Goal” instead of “Successes”…
Notice the discrepancy of the mindset, notice the feeling of a challenge, BUT the added since of “work to be done”. However, by using “Successes”, there is definitely a sense of immediate satisfaction. Don’t get me wrong, we will have to roll up our sleeves; however in the sense of increased satisfaction as we expand our successes.
Basically, all I am trying to convey is our choice of words we use and our choice in reaching and only accepting the best positive “thingies”… LOL! You will always have a choice… So why not chose success. Another reflection here is to write your success down, read your success daily, share your successes with other like-minded-individuals. Yep, this includes me!
At the time of this posting I am just under 13k Twitter followers and my blog stats are averaging 34 daily unique visits. I will keep you posted on my “40 Day Success Path”. And I am also looking forward to celebrating yours!
So Remember… Obtain Success, Not Goals!
Much Much Success!
JW Reed, Jr.
JWReedJr @WealthEvite.com
http://YourSuccessEvite.com
9 Ways of Becoming Friendlier – Dale Carnegie
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DALE CARNEGIE’S PRINCIPLES OF HOW TO WIN & INFLUENCE PEOPLE
Become A Friendlier Person
- Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.
- Give honest, sincere appreciation.
- Arouse in the other person an eager want.
- Become genuinely interested in other people.
- Smile.
- Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
- Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
- Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.
- Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely.
Personal Review – How to Win Friends & Influence People
Published first in 1937; this book was an overnight success. Eventually selling 15 million copies, How to Win Friends & Influence People
What Does Wikipedia Say:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dale_Carnegie
JW Reed, Jr.
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JWReedJr @ WealthEvite.com
http://YourSuccessEvite.com
